My daughter-in-law talked to us
last night about the ability to love
without the necessity of liking.
This is a subject that has always
interested me and I have written
about it before. Still, it surprised
me to see comprehension re the
subject in one so young.
She talked about caring deeply
for the well-being of a co-worker,
but not loving her. She also went
on to elucidate about other
instances.
I find the opposite is true as well.
There are those I quite like, but
have not yet learned to love. I
can't help but wonder if these
are conscious intellectual choices
we make, or if we are guided by
our feelings only?!
I know of a few instances where
a person has seemed to dislike
me on sight. I'm not offended,
this simply is . . . but, I do find it
interesting. I can't help but wonder
and be amazed at this whole love
vs like dynamic. Add in the quandary
of the instant dislike bit and me
thinks we all have some pondering
to do!!!
not really sure
i like you i love you i think
wish i understood
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