Dec 13, 2022

12/13/2022

"Spirituality is recognizing 
and celebrating that we are 
all inextricably connected to
each other by a power greater 
than all of us, and that our 
connection to that power and 
to one another is grounded in 
love and compassion. Practicing
spirituality brings a sense of
perspective, meaning and 
purpose to our lives."
~Brené Brown

We had such a marvelous
discussion last night. My
daughter-in-law made an
interesting comment; hope
I get this right . . .

She said something along
the lines of . . . the gift of
religion is that it leads us 
to spirituality . . . lovely 
idea.

Seems to me that the term
spirituality means something
somewhat different to each 
of us. For me, it is found in
acts of kindness, compassion
and forgiveness . . .

. . . handing a child a flower, 
helping an elderly woman
with her groceries, lending
a hand to someone in a
wheel chair . . .

 . . . reading aloud to a person
with poor eyesight, sending
flowers to the lonely, the odd
phone call or note . . .

Religion is a choice that works
for many, methinks having very
little to do with spirituality. This
'don', this gift lives within us all. 

'Tis a matter of paying attention
to business and embracing it
with all our hearts . . .

Dec 12, 2022

12/12/2022

"Hell is empty and
all the devils are here."
~William Shakespeare

Had a fab discussion 
w/a long-time friend 
this afternoon. 

We were pondering the
imagined reality of both
heaven, hell. Obviously,
every faith known to
mankind has their own
beliefs regarding these.

On the other hand, no
matter one's belief in the
hereafter, we all live our
own heavens and hells
right here on earth. Some
say, we create them our-
selves. Others say we're
given them as a kind of
lesson. The only way to
learn, right?!

I swear, sometimes I
simply think it's all part
of life and nobody is
assigning anything to
anyone. 

Yes, there are lessons
learned and yes, some-
times I even pay attention
to business and make an
effort to change. Others,
I'm clueless or just not
interested in the outcome.

Maybe, just maybe, it's
different for each and
every! We are all on diff
paths, after all. 

Still, I tend to think that 
all paths lead to Rome!

'Tis a quandary . . .

Dec 11, 2022

12/11/2022

Just watched an old show 
that left me pondering . . .

In said show, the protagonist 
arranged a shooting scene in
order to portray his innocence. 
Set me to wondering . . .

How many times have I re-
arranged my own scenes to
make me out the innocent 
rather than the guilty.

I know that when I f--- up,
I tend to keep revisiting the
same scene in my mind, over 
and over. And, if I'm honest
with myself, little by little
that bit of a story just keeps
changing enough to make 
me out to be the innocent.

Here I am, about a hundred
years old . . . when the hell
am I going to grow up and
take responsibility for my
own actions.

Love how life stretches out
an allotted time so one can 
learn. High time I grow up
and take responsibility!

Going to do so if it kills me!
Here's hoping . . .

Dec 10, 2022

12/10/2022

"There are only two days in the
year that nothing can be done. 
One is called yesterday and the
other is called tomorrow. So
today is the right day to love,
believe, do and mostly live."
~Dalai Lama

For my sins, seems I ever and
always make the effort to live
in those two impossible days!
I cry over the spilt milk of
yesterdays and stress out about
the morrows. Go figure . . .

Methinks we all get this, those
simple words of the Dalai Lama.
Yet, there is a great distance
between getting them and doing
them.

There's naught wrong with a
look back and planning forward.
But, It's so important to live in
our todays! 

Not quite sure how to get there.
Maybe, it's all about bringing
our minds into the play of the
moment. Easier said than done,
but well worth the while.

I swear, I'm going to make that
effort to live and enjoy today.
Harder said than done, I bet . . .

Dec 9, 2022

12/09/2022

"The only real mistake is the one
from which we learn nothing."
~Henry Ford

Saw this phenomenal quote on
our infamous FB this morning.
Methinks, I need this tattooed 
on my very soul!

It's that side of horrific how we
berate ourselves over and over
for the mistakes we've made. 
In some cases, years!

Why is it that we can't accept
our mistakes, learn from them
and move on? We play the
scenarios over and over in our
minds. As the producers of our
own mental movies, we edit,
look at alternative endings, and
waste our time wishing things
had been different.

As I'm about a hundred years 
old, I have no idea how much 
time I have left on earth. I'd
like to think I could learn this
lesson whilst I still have time.

Bottom line, so need to lose the 
guilt over my mistakes already.

Learn and grow?!



Dec 8, 2022

12/08/2022

Methinks I've been having
prophetic dreams again.
Pray, allow me to share.

It all began yesterday . . .
We ran to Safeway so I
could buy some crossword
puzzles. Getting home, my
guy put on an old murder
mystery called, Diagnosis
Murder starring Dick Van
Dyke. A tad later, I read
a few chapters of a Harry
Potter book I've been
re-reading.

Beginning to get drowsy,
I fell asleep, along with my
book landing on the floor.
The hours in slumber ever
seem to pass quickly. Upon
awaking, I pondered my
vast prophetic dream.

I was at Hogwarts, Harry
Potter's school, sitting in a
comfy chair in the lounge
by the fire. There I was
working on a crossword
puzzle, when Dick Van D
came in and interrupted
me.

So much for my dreams 
going prophetic, right?!
Sorry I can't write any
more, my own hysterics
are about to throw me to
the wolves . . . 

Oh my God, I must be 
back at Hogwarts . . .
Leave me be Dick, I'm
trying to read here!!!

Dec 7, 2022

12/07/2022

"Selling all my physical books
today before I make a big move
and switching to a Kindle."
~Bittersweet

I saw this on FB yesterday . . .
Obviously, it gave me pause.
I'm currently reading an 870
page book and its heft has
made me think it would be
easier to read it on my Nook.

Alas, I haven't fired up my
Nook in a dozen years . . .
not even sure if it works 
anymore. 

Still, there is something
rather phenomenal in a
proper book. Pure magic!
Aside from the afore
mentioned heft, there is
the actual beauty of the
book itself. I like the feel
of the pages and enjoy
turning them as I read.

I do like the practicality
of the electronic book.
Methinks my guy would
appreciate NOT having
the light on while he's
trying to sleep. Maybe 
I should give my Nook
a whirl, or maybe I
should just buy one of
those small lights that
fit on your head?

Wonder where they're
sold, if at all?!

Dec 6, 2022

12/06/2022

"I am pieces of all the places
I have been, and the people I
have loved. I've been stitched
together by song lyrics, book
quotes, adventure, late night
conversations, moonlight, 
and the smell of coffee."
~Brooke Hampton

So appreciate this quote . . . 
rather makes one think of a 
life well lived in different 
terms. Too often we judge
success by money made, trips
taken, tasks accomplished.

Taking a page out of the above
quote makes me want to take
a peek at my own values . . .

That which I ever and always
love first and foremost would
be my children. Funnily enough,
I've always wanted them to
experience life through their
own family and friends. Add in
the joy that travel and adventure
bring and bounty awaits!

For me, that salt and pepper 
of a good life, or should I say, 
some serious chili seasoning . . . 
looks like a sweet fire, excellent 
background music, a good book 
and a cuppa anything delish on 
the side table.

Another side of me, not to forget
that I'm a Libra, loves moonlight
conversations with my sisters, 
drum circles and meditations. 

Hey, where's that red? I need a 
little top me up . . .

Dec 5, 2022

12/05/2022

Of course you all know my
aversion to winter and snow
as I've bitched about it enough.

Methinks the answer lies in 
the old adage, "Eat, drink and 
be merry . . . " and no, I'm not
adding the last part!!!

Yesterday was one of those . . .
A small group of us made Yule
logs. We all brought small logs
we'd collected. My guy did the
trimming and drilling and we
were on . . .

The table was filled with all
kinds of candles, ribbons,
greenery . . . add in the glue
guns, scissors, snips. And not
to forget the absolute glee!!!

Obviously, we each had our
own plans in mind, but midst
the fun and laughter, sharing 
our bounty, our ideas simply
exploded into pure beauty!

Once we were in final stages,
bottles were opened, snacks
seemed to magically appear.
And a few sips later, we were
off (NOT on) . . .

Taking pics, sharing jest, the
guys must have gotten quite
a kick out of us. Not long
before they joined in, bringing
their noxious ways with them.

'Twas hard to bring festivities
to a close, but dark, home and
dinners ever await. For me, the
end of this perfect day meant
I had to decorate my table and
crown it with my Yule log.

Such momentous memories, 
an ongoing kaleidoscope in
my mind . . . bless ye merry
gentlewomen . . .

Dec 4, 2022

12/04/2022

"I'm sassy and passionate.
Chaotic. Sarcastic. Occasionally
offensive, a bit awkward, and
never easy to control. I spent
most of my life thinking those
were bad things only to wake
up one day and realize they
were my best qualities."
~Brooke Hampton

I have a somewhat love/hate
relationship with this author;
mostly love with a little hate
thrown in. I was reading her
self-descript yesterday and
thought to myself, "Self, we
would all do well to follow
her example."

Might be the self-acceptance
that comes with aging. We 
do tend to lose quite a bit 
of nonsense along the way as 
we blow out those additional
b-day candles. 

My first cousin wrote me
yesterday, talking about self-
acceptance. He seemed to
think I had accomplished it,
but I imagine it's rather an
on-going process.

It occurs to me that we'd all
do well to make an intro type
statement about ourselves.
Thinking here . . . seems to 
me, maybe we forget that
essence of being whilst just
trying to get through life the
best we can.

What say you we do this . . . 
a thought or two dedicated to 
our own personal growth. 'Tis
a thought . . .

Were I just meeting myself for
the first time, I would indeed
note the eccentricity. That, I
celebrate. I love well; I friend
well. I celebrate my path and
intentionally walk it every day
of my life.

If I could only . . . awwwww,
maybe I shouldn't even go there!
Tell me, who are you? How are
you becoming?


Dec 3, 2022

12/03/2022

Can't help but wonder if 
anyone gets the same kick
out of what I tend to think
of as alternative shopping.

One of my greatest loves
would be proper antique
stores. Alas, pocketbook
doesn't seem to extend to
that kind of shopping . . .
but, I still enjoy the 
occasional look-see.

I do get quite a kick out of
Goodwill stores. Most of
them are organized, clean
and above all, interesting.

I tend to only look at the
pretties, as my mother 
used to call them. I make
an effort to only pick up
older items that would fit
in a 135 year old cabin.

Once in a while, I find a
specialty shop, fund-raiser
type, that I just fall for . . .
and fall for is exactly the
right term; make no mistake.

We slipped away this morn
and visited a couple of places.
I found a few of such fun
things. Thank God I only go
once every month or two.
Otherwise I would be broke.

Love me a good garage sale.
I have a sister who truly rises
to the occasion. She gets up
early at the weekend, makes
a list from the adverts and off
she goes. She has some finds
that must wow the gods! I'm
tempted to theft every time I
visit her. Good thing she has
a great sense of humor.

Sooooo love me some x-mas 
alternative shopping!!!

Dec 2, 2022

12/02/2022

I feel like such a shit!

My dearest and bestest just
gave me a very special coffee
warmer for x-mas. Alas, the
mug that comes with has to
be used for it to work.

My problem is that I have an
ongoing love affair with my
absolute favest coffee mugs.
I tried to hide disappointment, 
but she knows me way too 
well. She offered to exchange
it for the more simple plug-in
one I've been intending to get
for myself.

Can't help but wonder though,
Is one born a total shit or does
it come with age?! I'm quite
upset with myself . . . damn!
I'll probably just chastise my-
self, beat myself up, for a few
days and then go on to being
naughty once again.

On a brighter note . . . she did
say she was happy to exchange
it. You know, a friend like this
gal is beyond priceless!!!

Just love her muchly . . .

Dec 1, 2022

12/01/2022

Sooooo . . . today marks the
beginning of the end for 2022!

December is such a fun month!
All those different end of year
celebrations for each and every
creed, birthdays and all coming
to an end on New Year's Eve. 
Wow!

My fave part of this month is
rounding up all the presents I've
been buying throughout the year.
I have some pretty odd ways of
wrapping and I get a kick out of
that too. The hard part is getting
them to the post office. I have to
chuckle . . . nowadays, posting 
is more expensive than the gifts. 
Go figure!

I like to begin decorating on the
first every year. Takes me several
days to get it all up . . .  and then
again to take it all down. I usually
find the odd piece that I've over-
looked around Valentine's Day.

This would be my day to remind
myself not to let December turn
me into a proper drinker. Good 
to be both sane and careful though 
my guy has already brought home 
the eggnog and rum.

Then there's that whole thinking
which New Year's Resolutions 
to adopt. You know, the ones we
follow for about three days and
then forget all about them?!

I pray you all have the most
glorious of Decembers . . . the
planning, gifs, celebrations and
family time . . . Just do it all!

love me end of year
celebrations all day long
serve me up some cheer